To fulfill by forsaking

There is a kind of affection but without serendipity and there is a kind of fulfillment by way of forsaking.

A person who never want to lost you may not be the one who really love you or loyal to you.  Sometimes it is only a confused mind with strong possessive impulse.  They may do things hurting others without benefit themselves and at the same time take it for granted.  If a person always think that "once I have it, I am not going to let go ever and forever", then this person is only a paranoiac of possession.  Trying to get the eternal assurance of love will only result in further astray.

To love something means to learn how to appreciate it, to cherish it and to make it precious.  To care someone means to let that someone delighted.  Because this person's emotions will bring turbulence to your emotions too.  That's why there is a saying "I feel glad because you are happy".  Loving a person is to let her/him to live in happiness.  This will make the affection more sincere.  If you are not able to do that, then you may have to let go.  Therefore sometimes, we need to learn how to forsake.  Because giving up is also a kind of beauty.

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