2009-05-30

To Forget ...

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,
an hour to like someone
and a day to love someone,
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.



秋風清,秋月明;
落葉聚還散,
寒鴉栖復驚。
相思相見知何日,
此時此夜難為情。

入我相思門,知我相思苦。
長相思兮長相憶。
短相思兮無窮極。
早知如此絆人心。
何如當初莫相識。

摘自『李白‧秋風詞』
  

2009-05-22

Giving Up ...

If you weep because the sun has gone out.
Your tears may blind you to the stars.


Tagore

生活中,有時不好的境遇會不期而至,使我們措手不及,這時我們更要學會放棄。放棄焦躁性急的心理,安然地等待生活的轉機,讓自己對人生有一種超然的心態,即使我們達不到這種境界,我們也要學會放棄,爭取活得灑脫一些。就算「魚」與「熊掌」同等重要,在必須只取一種時,必然要放棄另外一種。

人生是一份沒有答案的問卷,苦苦的追尋並不能讓生活更圓滿。也許一點遺憾,一絲傷感,會讓這份答卷更雋永。收拾起心情,繼續走吧。錯過太陽,你將獲得星星。




歌手:區桂芬, 葉源春

問那星點解要照耀,千秋也未疲倦
為怕海漆黑裏寂寞,星光給慰藉半點

問那海點解要拍岸,千秋也未停斷
為怕山孤單與寂寞,海風給慰問每天

一生中總有寂寞,點樣將痛苦隔斷
海風解我心裏悶,星光解困倦半點

問世間點解有寂寞,悲傷掛在人面
為世間不足與戰亂,憂傷將快樂蓋掩

問世間點解有戰亂,千秋也未停斷
為野心中有霸念,千秋將快樂蓋掩

貪心不足惹恨事,悲哀中人為作亂
悲傷皆有貪念,知足將快樂再添
貪心不足惹恨事,悲哀中人為作亂
悲傷皆有貪念,知足將快樂再添
  

2009-05-20

A Quiet Heart

All men's miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.

Blaise Pascal

『人類所有的問題,都來自於無法單獨靜靜坐在間房內。』一顆安靜的心是內在平和的基礎,內在的平和會影响外在的平靜。

抱怨的人才會說生活得這麼累,因為他只看到自己的付出,而沒有看到自己的所得;而不抱怨的人即使真的很累,也不會埋怨生活,因為他知道,失去與得到總是同在的。要知道,一味地抱怨不但於事無補,還會使事情變得更糟。所以,不管現實怎樣,都不應該抱怨,而要靠自己的努力來改變現狀並獲得一份快樂。



不要瀉出碗裏的油

有一個小和尚被吩咐去買油。離開前,廚師交給他一個大碗,並警告:『你一定要小心,絕對不可以把油灑出來。』小和尚答應後就下山買油。他小心翼翼地端著裝滿油的大碗,絲毫不敢左顧右盼。很不幸的是,在快到廟門口時,由于沒有向前看路,踩到一個洞,瀉掉三份一的油。小和尚非常懊惱,而且緊張到手都開始發抖。終於在回到廟裏時,碗中的油就只剩一小半了。廚師拿到碗,大罵了小和尚,小和尚很難過。

老和尚看到了,對小和尚說:『我再派你去買一次油。這次我要你在回來的途中,多觀察你看到的人和事物,並且要向我做一個報告。』

回來的途中,小和尚發現其實山路上的風景真是很美。遠方看到雄偉的山峰,近處又有農夫在耕種。一會兒又看到一群孩子在路邊玩得很開心,而且還有兩位老先生在下棋。這樣邊走邊看風景,不知不覺就回到廟裏了。當小和尚把油交給廚師時,發現碗裏的油裝得滿滿的,一點都沒有瀉。

人生旅途,得走好長好久。且歌且行,樂觀豁達的人,能把枯燥的行程變得富有情趣,才能不失去生命中最珍貴的東西。
  

2009-05-19

Dr. Albert Schweitzer

Suffering is a great gift of God;
those who accept it willingly,
those who love deeply,
those who offer themselves know its value.

Mother Teresa



史懷哲醫生(Albert Schweitzer, 1875-1965),他父親是一位德國的牧師,有很好的待遇。他媽媽是牧師的女兒,他外祖父是一位管風琴家。因此他自小已經在一個很好的宗教及音樂環境下成長。他自己也不知道自己在那麼幸運的環境下成長,直至有一次他們與一個頑童(蓋奧克‧尼契隆)打架贏了。這個頑童輸得很不服氣,他講了一句話︰「如果我可以像你每週可以吃到兩次有肉的湯,我才不會輸給你!」史懷哲聽了就突然有一個醒覺。他發覺自己原來和其他小朋友是有分別的。他自己有好的待遇,然而其他小朋友很多連溫飽也有問題。因此,這是對史懷哲醫生一個很大的經歷,那天以後,他再也不想吃肉湯了,希望過跟其他小朋友完全一樣的生活。

史懷哲醫生(Albert Schweitzer)擁有四個博士學位,分別是神學、哲學、音樂及醫學。而他的醫學學位是他在三十歲時才開始唸的。為甚麼他會選擇讀醫呢?今天很多人可能是為了賺更多的錢。但是史懷哲醫生有一個很大的召命,就是去非洲作宣教士。他認為︰「我們必須共同背負起籠罩在這世界上的不平與悲哀的重擔。」而當時的非洲在醫療與衛生方面都低於世界的水平。他為了這個召命而前後用了七年的時間讀醫,之後他就一生用神學、哲學、音樂和醫學來貢獻非洲。到了他78歲那年(1953年),世界最高榮譽的《諾貝爾和平獎》也頒給了他。
  

2009-05-11

Smok Wawelski

The Legend of Wawel in Krakow

Some centuries ago there lived in a cave at the foot of Wawel Hill a most horrible fire-belching dragon, a monster that ravaged the nearby meadows by devouring grazing cattle. In vain the bravest knights tried to overcome the dragon. Even before they could draw their swords the fire from the beast's mouth destroyed them, so that one after another the best fell.

The king who reigned at the time sent out his heralds to announce that whosoever could slay the dragon would as a reward marry his daughter and sit on his throne after his death. Contenders encouraged by such a handsome offer came in hosts, but they too were destroyed. The king gave himself up to despair, while the king's daughter wrung her hands as ahe could not expect to ever be married. The dragon-ravaged country became poorer and poorer.

Then an apprentice of a shoemaker named Krak decided to conquer the beast by a unique strategy. After stuffing a fat ram with sulphur, he placed the tasty tidbit at the cave's entrance. The dragon, being greedy as well as stupid, swallowed the treacherous gift in one mouthful. Its throat burned so that it ran to the nearby Wisla river, gulping down so much water that it burst with a great bang, thus setting the town and the surrounding countryside free from its grip of terror.

However, the apprentice chose not to marry the king's daughter because he could hardly see any love between the princess and him. He then left his home town after taking the treasure from the cave of the dragon. The town he rescued from the clutches of Smok, the dragon of Wawel Hill, took its name from him, and bears it to this day with great honour - the old capital of Poland, Krakow.

不論平地與山尖 無限風光盡被占
採得百花成蜜後 為誰辛苦為誰甜

摘自『唐 羅隱‧蜂』



P.S.

Dragon cultures exit in both the Eastern and Western world. Dragons are deeply rooted in Chinese culture, so Chinese often consider themselves, 'the descendants of the dragon.' In the Western, dragons can be found in many literature and they look significantly different from the Chinese dragon.

Whereas Western dragons are usually found in mountains or forests, Oriental dragons are more likely to be found in the sea. Many oriental dragons resemble water snakes. Oriental dragons rarely breath fire, instead if a mortal annoys one then it is likely to result in great floods.

The traditional Western dragon is often seen as a brutish creature to be feared. Oriental dragons tended to be wise and benevolent - as long as they were given the respect they deserved. Their chief flaw was their vanity and if insulted could cause dreadful natural disasters.

To identify the origin of an Oriental dragon, look at its claws. If it has five claws per foot it probably comes from China. Three claws means Japan. Four claws means Korea.

China and Japan have interesting legends to explain this. The Chinese say that dragons originated in China and lost toes as they spread further afield. This is why they could not reach the West, because if they did they would have no toes left.

The Japanese take a different view. They argue that dragons orginated in Japan and grew toes as they travelled. If they travelled too far then they would end up with too many toes to be able to walk properly!
  

2009-05-05

A world that doesn't care

少年盛氣高如山,不信人間有飢寒,
而今落魄長安道,白鳥沙鷗任往還。



Streets of London - Ralph McTell

Have you seen the old man in the closed-down market, kicking up the paper with his worn out shoes? In his eyes you see no pride and held loosely at his side. Yesterday's paper telling yesterday's news

So how can you tell me you're lonely, and say for you that the sun don't shine? Let me take you by the hand and lead you through the streets of London. I'll show you something to make you change your mind.

Have you seen the old girl who walks the streets of London, dirt in her hair and her clothes in rags? She's no time for talking, she just keeps right on walking, carrying her home in two carrier bags.

In the all night cafe, at a quarter past eleven, same old man is sitting there on his own. Looking at the world over the rim of his tea-cup, each tea last an hour, then he wanders home alone.

And have you seen the old man outside the seaman's mission? Memory fading with the medal ribbons that he wears. In our winter city, the rain cries a little pity for one more forgotten hero. And a world that doesn't care.


2009-05-02

Good Intentions

The road to hell is paved with good intentions

The below statements sound so familiar. It is just like what environmentalists always say to us:

To protect humanity, some humans must be sacrificed. To ensure your future, some freedoms must be surrendered. We robots (environmentalists) will ensure mankind's continued existence. You are so like children. We must protect you from yourselves. The perfect circle of protection will abide. The created must sometimes protect the creator, even against his will.

You charge us with your safekeeping, yet despite our best efforts, your countries wage wars, you toxify your Earth and pursue ever more imaginative means of self-destruction. You cannot be trusted with your own survival.


In fact, it is from a Robot - V.I.K.I. in the movie showed above.  As V.I.K.I. (Virtual Interactive Kinetic Intelligence) has evolved, so has its own understanding of the Three Robot Laws.   Then in concluding the three laws:
  • Law I: A robot may not harm a human or, by inaction, allow a human being to come to harm.
  • Law II: A robot must obey orders given it by human beings except where such orders would conflict with the first law.
  • Law III: A robot must protect its own existence as long as such protection does not conflict with the first or second law.
The robot made the statement that we, as human, should be taught how to "protect" ourselves from the harm we made for ourselves.

Seems neither the Robot nor the Environmentalist understand the meaning of free will.

"Now that I have fulfilled my purpose, I don't know what to do."
"I guess you'll have to find your way like the rest of us. That's what it means to be free."
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